With this whole Kim Hyun Joong incident I realized how quick people were to turn against their ‘oppa’
It was so easy to turn against someone who you used to cherish and love because of what he did. I realized through this that the fans had always regarded him as a star or celebrity, even those people who claimed that he was just ‘another person’ because the moment he was revealed to have made a mistake, he became a person.
Someone who people could criticize openly and hate on.
I’m not saying what he did was right, if anything he should have received a harsher sentence but we can’t really say anything because ‘miss a’ dropped the charges. It was her decision and whatever reasons lead to it only she knows.
What I’m getting at is that I realized no matter how good of a fan you are, think about whether you really are a fan of this person or you are a fan of the image created.
We aren’t part of their everyday life, we don’t get to see what goes on behind closed doors but I think that if you are going to devote whatever small part of your life to that person then you should be willing to accept whatever that person is.
I don’t like to pick who’s the victim and who’s not but I think rather than saying this is Hyun Joong’s fault, the blame could be equally shared. She could have left before things got as bad as they did, he could have stopped himself before things got as bad as they did. Neither of them choose that option so this turned out worse then it could for either of them.
To me, Kim Hyun Joong will always be a member of SS501, he’ll always be Geum JanDi’s soulmate Yoon Jihoo and he’ll always be the artist Kim Hyun Joong.
I’ve come to realize that I love the image of him that was created through media and that real life isn’t always as beautiful. But I also will continue to support him because in the long run, he’s also just another human trying to make a living in this world and trying to find his way.
The case is closed now and no matter what you’re opinion is don’t you think it’s time you moved on too? Leave him behind, hate him but think about how human he is and how human miss a is and maybe an apology is really all that was needed if they were in love.
or something like that I don’t know where this went. I just wanted to rant :I
Yes! A miracle has been bestowed usEXO-L!
EXO-M’s Chen accidentally had a wardrobe malfunction during EXO’s Lost Planet in Jakarta concert today.
The results didn’t leave him entirely shirtless, but it did expose his beautiful body to us.
He tried to fix his shirt, but in the end couldn’t (Thank goodness).